Art is Rad

Growing up and as an adult, I’ve always had a caring nature, but it hasn’t always been well-received. I’ve found that when I make connections with people, the friendship often starts off strong, but over time it tends to fade away. I’ve been told that it’s because I come off as abrasive or rude, but the truth is that I speak my mind because I genuinely care. If someone comes to me seeking advice, I’ll always give my honest opinion, even if it’s not what they want to hear. I believe that being truthful is more important than just telling someone what they want to hear.

However, I’ve learned that there’s a balance to strike when it comes to giving advice. If I’m too blunt, it can come across as uncaring. But if I’m too accommodating, it can be just as bad. I’ve realized that it’s important to be honest but also to be kind and considerate of other people’s feelings.

Unfortunately, not everyone understands my approach to friendships. Some people see my kindness as a weakness and try to take advantage of me. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve learned to recognize the signs and patterns of this behavior, and I cut it off as soon as I see it. People might say that I don’t give others the benefit of the doubt, but I’ve learned the hard way that it’s better to protect myself than to be taken advantage of.

Despite these challenges, I still believe in the value of true friendship. When I do make a connection with someone, I cherish it deeply. I don’t have many close friends, but the ones I do have are incredibly important to me. I’m not afraid to set boundaries and let people know what I do and don’t like, but when I do form a bond with someone, it’s a bond for life.

It’s not always easy being myself in a society that values superficiality and conformity, but I’m okay with that. I’ve come to accept that I’m not like everyone else, and that’s okay. I care about things that matter to me, and I’m not afraid to speak up when I feel strongly about something. My heart isn’t dead or broken, but it’s tired. Tired from all the times I’ve been misunderstood or taken advantage of. But it’s also resilient and strong, and it still has plenty of room for new connections and experiences.